Day 14 – In the Success of 2010

It is the 16th of February today Team!!! Good morning!!!

Now I wanted to speak of love and relationships today again. I hope that is ok???!!!!

I have been gaining so much clarity around this these past few days that I wanted to share with you what The Team had been sharing with me!!!

Now The Team were discussing ‘Marriage’ with a MMP client the other day. They defined ‘Marriage’ as:

“Two beings of Light being The Light together”.

That was it. Simple as that. They also said that ‘Marriage’ was really no big deal and not that complicated. In fact they said it was so easy.

So why does life become so complicated in relationships and ‘Marriage’? Why is there so much heartache? Why do some ‘Marriages’ work and some seem like they don’t? How can the love be kept alive and the relationship flourishing?

Will we ask The Team??? Let’s!!!

“Marriage is very simple. It has become so complicated by rules and regulations on the earth plain that it has lost its fluid and natural flow of love, honour, care and respect. Each ‘Marriage’ needs to be defined on its own unique merit for each set of individuals. The definition needs to be open and capable of growth and expansion of each individual as they evolve. There needs to be an acknowledgement of the need to transform and be ‘different’. The need to learn and grow. The need to change. The need to become increasingly a better version of oneself. There needs to be a degree of flexibility in mind, Spirit, emotions and life circumstance to allow infinite space for the individual being within that relationship to be all it is meant to. That is love. That is ‘Marriage’. It is not about being with someone to meet all your needs. That person is not the ‘source of all’ for you. It is about being in the fluidity of life with that person. Honouring them in their evolvement and holding the space unconditionally for this, for always. Regardless of what it means for you. Unconditional love, care and support. If both parties in a relationship can offer this to each other then ‘Marriage’ would be bliss for all. God Bless”

Thank you Team!!!

Ok sounds like a different expectation to what many are shown ‘Marriage’ to be!!!

So it is about being in relationship with someone to facilitate their journey as a being of Light as they expand and stretch to the Light and you are part of that experience. That you hold that person in the space of the infinite or the unconditional and you flow with this. Bearing witness and being honoured to be part of this experience. It sounds like ‘Marriage’ really is a sacred and ‘Spiritual’ connection and not just about meeting earth plain needs. But the sacred ‘Marriage’ brings with it all the benefits for true enrichment and reward come from holding the unconditional space for someone.

Remember holding the unconditional space does not mean you put up with behaviour that is unkind or dishonouring. No. It means you allow your partner to take what action they need to fulfil their life mission and you bear witness to this and support it and vice versa.

Also it sounds like each couple need to define their relationship as what it is meant to be for them regardless of what the ‘rules’ are otherwise it won’t work.

The Team are ‘right’ the standard ‘rules’ don’t always work for everyone. So reinventing the wheel you might say to suit the unique needs of each individual in the relationship whilst committing to the core of unconditional love, growth and expansion is imperative for the long term success of the ‘Marriage’.

Keep reinventing also!!! For as you grow and expand individually and together you will need to ‘clean out’ that which no longer works to make way for what does work.

Your partner is a ‘Being of Light’ as are you.

To being your process of being ‘Married in The Light’ to take your relationship to the next height start to speak the language of ‘The Light’ within yourself to allow your partner to respond to this new level of being together.

Remember ‘The Light’ has its own intelligence and is powerful to bring around change of your persist using its language.

So to improve your relationship to have a ‘Marriage of The Light’:

*”Perfect. It is Perfect. Thank you for Everything’ is what you think and feel about yourself, your partner and your relationship. You need to think it to allow it to grow into something you are happy to live in and with!!!

*Persist thinking this no matter what for the signs and ‘wins’ with happen. A win for example is you feel more relaxed and peace and as a result you get on better with your partner and start to enjoy each other’s company again. Big step forward!!!

*If your partner can take on the same mindset willingly as you then you have super fuel to your picture and greater success will arrive.

*Spend time (Just a few minutes at least) each day lying down, eyes closed, palms up to receive and allow yourself to ‘be’ in the space of ‘Perfect’ and see the energy flowing down through your head and out through your base chakra straight to your partner’s base chakra up through their crown and back down through your head and so on. It clears the space of all the negativity and that which no longer works. So when you actually do ‘connect’ during the day you are coming from the space of ‘Light’ and not ‘stuff.

As a result you will notice your relationship becoming lighter, simpler, easier, sweeter, more fun, more joyous, closer and more intimate and you will feel so much more confident, loved and lovable.

Your ‘Marriage’ is worth the effort. For it can work in the way you would like it to with a little willingness and persisting.

It is ok though if you choose to not make it work for something it is time to release each other from being so close. The space is still there for the relationship it is just it has changed form for that moment into less contact than you would of expected.

So there is never failure or anything ‘going wrong’. Just honesty about what is ‘right’ for each person in that relationship and what phase the relationship is going through.
Sometimes every relationship goes through the ‘dark’ phase just as the moon has a ‘dark moon’. This is not ‘bad’ or ‘wrong’. It is just preparation for the next level of ‘The Light’.

Getting support when you are having a tricky time in your relationship is imperative so you gain a clear understanding of what phase your relationship is up to you so you can make decisions based on intelligence and wisdom to ensure you take the divinely correct action.

If you need support in relationships and would like to reinvent the love and return the essence of sweetness, honour and value to your relationship so you feel and have that ‘in love’ and glow of ‘being loved’ feel and look again then contact us on +61 2 9531 6752 or email on jo@joanneprior.com

I have 5 more IIS left for February to be filled and there is 3 more MMP spots still available!!!

I will hear from you soon.

Thank you to everyone who commented about the blog on the 14th February!!!!

J and TT xxx