Day 41 – In The Success of 2010

Hello Everyone

It is the 23rd of March today.

I felt I needed to say something else. Seems to be a theme for the week this need I have to ‘say something’!!! So am just flowing with this.

What I wanted to say was around relationships. I wanted to say always be willing to be the bigger person no matter what. Always be willing to always find a way to make sure the love, honour, regard and respect in any relationship is maintained, fostered and developed. This does not mean you have to stay in relationship when it has changed so much that you now feel like strangers in the relationship. Or that even if it is good for some of the time then it goes sour it is totally acceptable to walk away. As long as it is all done with the flavour of love, value, honour, respect and care.

I have seen so much of late with the women and men I have met as I have been sharing the ‘Think Yourself Thin’ journey that it is the impact of others in our lives that adds to the picture of who we think we are and how we feel about ourselves.

Everything you think and feel about another person they feel and experience. For your energy, words you speak and the actions you take (all driven from your thoughts) impact people in your life.

Your relationships in your life can be those with your partner, your children, your extended family, friends, colleagues, acquaintances and those you don’t know yet (get your mind around that!!! What you think about someone you don’t personally know can impact them also for it is all thought energy. This could explain why so many celebrities get caught being the image that public sentiment holds about them!!! Maybe that is what keeps Oprah struggling with weight because she is thought by so many on the planet as someone who struggles with weight. I’m going to think differently about this for her and see what happens!!!). To your relationship with your body, food, exercise, health and well-being all come under the umbrella of ‘relationships’ in your life.

Now what do you want these relationships to be? What experience would you like to live with all these people? What feeling and life would you like to live?

Well I choose to live in bliss. I choose to live in love, honour and respect. Where I am perfectly taken care of in every possible way. So that I am safe and secure and capable of thriving in every possible way so I can look after myself perfectly and take care of my family. This is ‘Nirvana’ and ‘Perfect’ for me.

So I set this intention every single day before the day starts. I choose to live this. I choose to live ‘Perfect’. I choose to live what is ‘Perfect’ for me. Now I don’t control ‘how?’ this picture is going to be revealed. For I know I will live this picture in my experience. As a result this is what I live. I do live in bliss. I feel totally at peace and serene and my relationships with myself, food, weight, health, my family, my friends, colleagues, money, finances, my business, my exercise and the overall balance of my life is perfect. So I live it. Does it always work out how I expected? No. But it is always perfect? Yes it is. I have it all. I maintain a healthy weight and my health just improves as the quality of my eating improves daily. My relationships get deeper and deeper and more sacred and enriching. My business booms because of this. My finances flow perfectly for I always have money for whatever I need at anyone time.

I don’t miss anything for I live the ‘Perfect’ every moment. So no matter when I am flat-out busy or if everything is still it is always ‘Perfect’.

I don’t attract hatred, negativity or hurt and pain. It just doesn’t happen. I don’t allow problems to become issues. I deal with everything as it arises and prevent disharmony and pain because I set the intention before the bad can even occur. If things get tense then I have the skills and abilities to always work myself back into alignment by being willing to be the bigger person and find the way to bring the relationship back into harmony. I live this and in my work show my clients how to gain the same skills and abilities I have.

At no point is it acceptable for me to criticism myself or anyone else. I just don’t. It is a good rule to set. Set the rule in your life and if you can get your partner to set it also then woo-hoo!!! Shane and I have the rule there is no name-calling. There is only treating each other as a precious jewel. We treat each other as if we don’t have to walk the path with each other. We choose to do it. The other person doesn’t have to stand by us. We choose to. So we treat each other as a precious gift to each other and it works. We continue to thrive and be well supporting each other to achieve that we are meant to.

Giving up criticism opens so many doors in your life to achieving your success. You feel happy and love your life, the love blossoms and your relationship deepens and is more fulfilling, new opportunities come into your experience because you inspire others to assist and help you because your attitude towards them is honouring, respectful and valuing therefore your business booms because of their support. You speak so well to others that you feel so good within that you stop beating yourself up with food and you lose weight. See how it all helps???

So I suggest you take these 3 steps to help you to think yourself into this life success:

• Make a pledge to only think highly of yourself and there fore others. I have a pledge to never ever ever criticise another woman. For my attitude is that if I criticise one woman I am criticising the sisterhood and letting us all down. If I hurt another woman I am hurting me. So I think ‘Perfect’ about everyone. It only draws women into my life that are ‘Perfect’ in that we have mutually beneficial relationships that are so respecting, honouring and valuing that so much is gained from emotional nourishment to financial stability.

• Persist.

• Think before you speak and make sure your words you choose to share with others come from value and care. For your words have power to either hurt or encourage. As Thumper would say in ‘Bambi’, ‘if you can’t say anything nice don’t say anything at all’.

Let me know how you go? This way of thinking about my relationships has turned my life around on a health, weight and business level in a way I never thought possible.

If you need help those to think yourself into this type of success then please feel free to contact me on +61 29531 6752 or email me on jo@joanneprior.com for everyone is free to have a complimentary 15 minute session with me!!!! So now is your chance!!!

The ‘Think Yourself…Successful’ Mentoring Packages are now opening for April. They are 22 sessions for the price of 20 sessions as an introductory special!!! If you would like to be walked into the skills and abilities to live a life of sheer success then we are here for you!!!

Joanne Prior and The Team