Day 46 – In The Success of 2010

Hello Everyone on the 30th of March 2010

So much has happened today but I hardly left home and the office. But so much was gained. I made new contacts, I got to ground my next step in my business plan with my Business Mentor (Deb Pilgrim http://www.debilgrim.com) I consulted with one of my Personal Life Mentors, Elizabeth Walker (Clairvoyant Reader, +61 2 6452 2145) and channelled for my clients, colleagues and friends. Phew what a day!!!

What I learnt today for us all was around ‘making it’ in life.

Do you know you already have what it takes to live the life of success that you can feel or sense or even see within? That this image or feeling or sense you carry within is not just your ‘imagination’ it is actually who you are and what life is meant to be for you. So this inner ‘movie screen’ is showing you what life is divinely meant to be for you.

What I spend my time doing is helping my clients close this gap from what life is to what it is meant to be.

For example I worked with a client today who felt so disappointed in her success. She had made some amazing changes to her reality as a result of her work with The Team and I. She had embraced a whole new mindset and how to look at life in a way that encouraged life to grow and blossom rather than stay stuck and painful. She was enjoying the inner peace and harmony she had created. She had taken action to better her health and well-being and was enjoying her relationships for exactly the joy they were providing for her. But someone close to her had commented to her that they thought she wasn’t succeeding. In fact they thought she was ‘failing’ because she hadn’t put into action X, Y and Z. This seed of doubt was planted in my client’s mind and she started to feel demoralised, less-than and within a matter of a few hours she felt like a total failure. What happened is all her new actions of health and well-being evaporated temporarily and she felt like she had ‘gone back’ to how she was before.

So we spoke of this to get insight into what had really happened. For you know me I never judge experiences for what they initially present as. I always have my ‘results-orientated’ cap on and I am always looking for ‘What is truly going on here?’ so that I can get ‘The Answer’ that will provide the action plan that will actually relief the anxiety and allow success to continue to grow.

What we ‘got’ was that my clients expression of success was unique to her. In fact it wasn’t up for discussion with anyone. She was achieving in her own right in her own way in the way that was and is best for her. There was nothing ‘wrong’ with what she was doing. She wasn’t ‘failing’. She was living her authentic truth and what was and is right and best for her. So she was living ‘Perfect’ for herself. Her path though did not reflect what this close relative thought was ‘Perfect’. So this close relative acknowledged this.

By the end of the conversation we ‘got’ that it doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks. They are entitled to their opinion and in this instant it wasn’t appropriate for my client to take on the thoughts of this close relative.

By the end of the call the client and I had re-centred her in the acknowledgement of her successes and set the intention for April for her further commitment to what is right and best for her. She felt like a success again and was recommitted all over again with added strength and empowerment because now she truly valued and could see how much of her success she was already living.

Where in your life have you felt like a ‘failure’ because your life hasn’t or isn’t working out how others expected it to for you? Do you feel disappointed in yourself because you too think you have ‘failed’ to live up to your expectations? Is your life what you thought it would be?

You are perfectly in the right place and nothing is by mistake or accident. The trials in your life are preparing you for something immense for only from great trial can great reward come. So if life has been a bit of a challenge then somewhere along the line you will recoup the loss or gain as a result.

You are already a living success because you are you and you are on your path facing the challenges in life each day with courage, strength and a willingness to be the best you can be. No matter what you say to yourself or what others say to you, you are a success. Full stop. End of story.

When you ‘see’ and ‘get’ you are a success then it gives you the chance to blossom into more success. ‘Success breeds Success’. So the more you ‘get’ and ‘see’ your success already the more you will grow further success.

No matter what challenges in life you face whether it be weight loss, finding the ‘right’ relationship, growing your business, increasing your income, improving your health, reaching a fitness goal, having children, facing retirement it can all be done simply and easily from ‘seeing’ and ‘getting’ you are already a success.

We will look forward to hearing your thoughts on this!!!

J and TT xxx

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